Change your mindset

You are scared and that's why you are unable to start

Eshaan Kansal
June 17, 2024

How to change your mindset

1000 WORDS | 10 Minute Read

You need to understand

It is you who is controlling your life, You are the one who is taking all the actions and decisions for whatever is happening. Let us say that your problems are there for a reason and that reason is your destiny. Which is trying to make you better. You can not control your fate but you can control what actions you take.

HOW TO SET A NEW MINDSET

We all know that you want to have big goals, and you want to achieve those big goals. You won’t know how to do it now, or maybe you might have an idea of how to do it but you are unable to process the things. You are unable to start your journey. You might not know where to start but you see your goal when you think about them. I know that might be a thing with, most of you all. So the question is, What can you do about it?

You just need a clear path.
You need to find it and starting is becoming the most difficult thing were you not because you don’t know how or you are procrastinating. You are not able to start your journey because you are scared. You are thinking about how you can fail instead of thinking how you can fail, think about what you can conquer. You might have made 100 difficulties in your path which you might face. Trust me there will be 1000 but you need to understand that if you don’t start you will not be able to achieve your end goal.

You are thinking that somebody will come, hold your hand, and take you through this journey of life. you are completely wrong. You are all alone by yourself, for the goals you have made, for the things you want, you are all alone. You can have your family to support you or your friends but at the end of the day, it’s you who has to walk down the road, walk down the hard path to do something for yourself.

Start small but Start

The way to look at it is not by just taking small steps, but by also making small goals, if your aim is to be a millionaire, try to set a goal of earning 1000 dollars first and do it in 3 months and then make your next goal of ten thousand dollars in six months. You can not try and set yourself for a million. It does not work like that. We have to start from level 1 and move our way up, just like a game.

I want you to start today because no one starts tomorrow. You take your first step by deciding not by achieving something. Your first step is to know what your goal is and then find different paths to get to the finish line.

Focus on getting the knowledge, knowledge by learning from people, reading books, and networking with people. if you don’t know what you want to achieve and in what way, you can never achieve something. It’s just your weak mentality of trying not to look at things the simple way.
It’s simple to make money, it’s simple to build a body, it’s simple to manage your day. Then why are you lacking? You are scared to work on yourself but there will soon be a day when someone around you will be in a better position and you will say to yourself that you wish you could be there. What happens then, then you tell yourself you were falling behind.

The game is about having opportunities, now most people think its luck but it’s not luck, it’s the way you look at things, if you want to see opportunities coming your way, keep your eyes wide open, everywhere you look is an opportunity.

Why do you see all these people on social media printing all this money?

They had the right knowledge, they took the right decision and they repeated that whole process again and again. You are scared because you don’t trust yourself and you don’t trust yourself because you haven’t worked on yourself hard enough. Thats the harsh truth. Your thinking is the root cause of your suffering. Stop thinking about the consequences think about what you can achieve if you cannot fail. Just think about it.

If you had a 100% success rate what would you do? The answer to this question is you would start and you would start today because you know you cannot fail and when you know you cannot fail you will be working for months and months just because you know that when this ends you won’t come out as a failure you will succeed. That’s how you look at things.

WHAT YOU LACK

You only lack the key concept of focus. You don’t think you have what it takes to change your life around. You don’t have what it takes to be better than 99% of the people out there. I am not telling you to work 12 hours a day or just do one thing the whole day, but if you can just get out there and focus for 3 hours then I promise you that you will be able to change your life in 6 months.